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How Do You Improve Communication and People Management Skills? Three Points

Situation: As his company grows and adds new employees, a CEO wants to improve his skills working with employees as well as managing time when employees come to him with suggestions or issues. Occasionally there is confusion between what is said and how his directions are interpreted. How do you improve communication and people management skills?

Advice from the CEOs:

  • How can one improve conversational skills when meeting others, breaking the ice and establishing a conversational relationship?
    • The easiest way is to ask benign questions. How was your weekend? How are you doing? Actively listen to what they say.
    • Remember their responses. Probe more deeply to prompt them to go into more detail. Show an interest in them. Most people love to talk about themselves and their experiences.
    • If they in return ask about you, give them a pleasant but brief response, and return with a question about them. This is like a tennis volley – keep on returning the ball.
    • The important point is to show an interest in others, and to improve the ability to recall what they have shared. Don’t cross personal boundary lines of what is “too personal.” Others will appreciate this attention and will warm to you.
  • If the concern is confirming understanding, start by repeating what you hear and confirm your understanding before responding.
  • Some individuals come into the office, plant themselves in a seat and just chat to waste time.
    • When one of these individuals comes into your office, stand to greet them with a smile and a friendly question of how you can help them. Do not sit down. Remain standing as long as they are in your office. This will naturally shorten the conversation and prevents them from “settling in.”
    • When you stand up, smile and greet them with a friendly question you are not putting them off. In fact, you are giving them more attention than they have received in the past. As a result, while preventing them from settling in, this is being done in a way that shows them respect.

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How Do You Move from Informal to Formal Processes? Five Keys

Situation: A company is growing its sales capabilities and adding staff. The CEO wants to improve the company’s ability to generate new business. To date they have relied on informal channels to generate referrals. How do move from informal to formal processes?

Advice from the CEOs:

  • Establish as standard practice that all personnel ask for referrals in normal communications with:
    • Clients
    • Sales associates of partner firms
    • Individuals who are trusted advisors of potential clients – lawyers, CPAs, financial advisors.
  • Different groups – CPAs, lawyers, financial advisors, etc. – have different interests and potential fears about making referrals. In conversations with individuals from each group, ask why they make referrals, how they are serving their own clients, and what potentially concerns them the most about making a referral.
    • Once this data has been collected, develop proof statements for each audience that address their needs and concerns. These may be different between different audiences.
  • Do the same with new clients, as they become clients. Ask why they chose your firm, and what most appealed to them about the firm. Make this part of the initial client services interview. Collect this data and create proof statements about company performance that will appeal to other potential clients.
    • Note that the responses from brand new clients may be significantly different from those of clients who have been with the company for a year or more. The latter group knows the company, and this will color their vision. Responses of new clients will be more germane to the needs of prospects.
  • Create a system to track frequency of contact with key referral sources. This system will identify, among other things:
    • Contact name, contact information
    • Contact history (contacts to the individual by the firm)
    • Referrals received from the contact
  • After contacting an individual who has been referred, always communicate promptly back to the referrer that the company has made the contact and the results. Always say thanks. Provide the referrer comfort that they will not be shut out.

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