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What are Appropriate Social/Personal Interactions at Work? Three Points

Situation: A new CEO has been promoted from within the ranks of a small-to-medium sized company. He was told by the board that the promotion was based on exemplary performance and the feeling that he was ready for this responsibility. He’s been with the company for many years and has developed close relationships with co-workers. How will the promotion impact those relationships? What are appropriate social and personal interactions at work?

Advice from the CEOs:

  • Consider three cases:
    • Case 1 – Even though two individuals may be friends outside of work, they do not engage as “friends” at work. There is a different role structure at work.
    • Case 2 – Coaching of children as an example: though two individuals have a friendship or close relationship outside of work, for example frequently playing golf or another sport, favoritism should not be shown toward this individual at work. Preserve the veil of trust with the other employees.
    • Case 3 – A CEO often has lunch with employees, but no other social activity outside of work. This individual often expresses a personal interest in others’ families and their families, interests and hobbies. This person takes the time to show that he or she cares about employees.
  • Just as was the case between the new CEO and the prior CEO, there is a natural distance between any employee and those individuals who evaluate or review them. The evaluators or reviewers have a power over the employee that prevents them from approaching each other as true peers.
    • Because of this natural barrier, do not try for force social or personal interactions. The best that one can do is to make sure that the others know that the CEO cares about them, has their interests in mind, and shows an interest in their families, interests and hobbies.
    • It is important to take advantage of opportunities to demonstrate an interest in others.
  • The person who asked the question mentioned the success of the CFO in building relationships with others in the office. If invited, attend these same functions. Observe and learn from the CFO’s interactions with the others. Model the CFO’s interactions but add your own individuality to this modeling. Most of all, listen actively, and patiently allow the interactions to mature. Don’t force things.

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How Do You Hold People Accountable? Four Suggestions

Situation: A new CEO of a small company finds it difficult to hold people accountable. To her, delivering criticism feels like delivering “bad news.” This makes her feel uncomfortable, so she hesitates and often takes care of tasks herself. This cuts into her planning and strategy time. How do you hold people accountable?

Advice from the CEOs:

  • This may be a question of semantics and the view of the task.
    • From a big picture standpoint, real bad news is saying “you’re fired!” By comparison, providing input to correct behavior or results is minor. Consider it coaching instead of bad news.
    • Consider the other person. Constructive feedback is positive. It communicates care about them as a person and their future within the company. It expresses a desire that they do well, and that the CEO is willing to take the time to help them.
  • The CEO’s job is to captain the ship that the team serves. When the CEO “does it herself” instead of providing coaching to others, she has abandoned the wheel. It also suggests that others aren’t up to the job.
  • Step back and look at the CEO’s big picture.
    • Nobody expects immediate perfection. The CEO position was offered because others judged the person as ready for it. They know from experience that learning management takes time.
    • However, they also know that becoming CEO requires giving up past responsibilities. The job is to coach others to perform to company standards.
  • What immediate steps can be taken?
    • Prioritize management time over task time.
    • When a team member’s work needs correction, do this with them. Show them how to correct the work. Coach them to the proper standards. Assure that they are clear on why and how to complete the work.
    • This is a double win – getting the job done in less time (for the CEO) and helping the team member to complete the work correctly the next time.
    • The CEO’s position is not as a resource. The role is to develop resources. This is the new value to the firm, the justification for the CEO’s salary, and the key to future success.

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What are Appropriate Social Interactions at Work? Three Thoughts

Situation: A first-time CEO is curious about the experience of others regarding social or personal interactions with employees at work. At previous companies, outside of company picnics or similar events there was little interaction between top staff and employees. Do others observe similar practices? What are appropriate guidelines for social interactions at work?

Advice from the CEOs:

  • Consider the following cases:
    • Case 1 – even though individuals may be friends outside of work, they often do not engage as “friends” at work. There is a different role structure at work.
    • Case 2 – if, based on history, a CEO and employee have had a close relationship outside of work, the CEO should not show favoritism toward this individual at work. It is important to preserve a veil of trust with the other employees; apparent favoritism will disrupt this.
    • Case 3 – a CEO may have lunch with employees, to build relationships and keep tabs on the company atmosphere, but other social activity outside of work should be handled cautiously.
  • There is a natural distance between any employee and those individuals who evaluate or review them or decide on promotions. The individuals have a power over the employee that prevents them from approaching each other as true peers.
    • Because of this natural barrier, it is inappropriate to force social or personal interactions. The best option is to make sure that the employees know that the boss cares about them, has their interests in mind, and shows an interest in them and their families.
    • It is important to take advantage of opportunities to demonstrate to employees that the CEO is interested in them.
  • The situation is different between managers and their teams. Teams function on the basis of relationships and trust. If the CEO is invited, it is appropriate to attend team or department functions. Observe and learn from these interactions with the others. Most of all, listen actively, and patiently allow the interactions to mature. Don’t force things.

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How Do You Manage the Company’s Growth? Seven Solutions

Situation: A CEO is contemplating the company’s growth over the next year. One key manager is leaving, an aggressive target has been set for the year, and the company needs to fund this growth from planned cash flow. The biggest question is whether the existing team can handle this growth. How do you manage the company’s growth?

Advice from the CEOs:

  • All managers reach the limit of their abilities sooner or later. It happens on different timetables to different people. The critical question is how well does the team learn along the way?
  • It’s important to recognize first, what you don’t know, and second, to decide how to cover this deficiency.
    • The deficit can be filled through team learning, hiring someone with the need expertise, or bringing in a consultant with the needed skills.
  • If there are too many meetings, are they all necessary? Do they accomplish what needs to be done? Or might they be part of a routine or habit that needs review.
    • Beware the standing meeting.
  • Analyze the company’s infrastructure. Look at strengths and weaknesses of all departments. Determine the resources necessary to fill in the gaps.
  • Look at things that are being done now that perhaps shouldn’t be done.
    • Alternatively, are there things you are not being done that should be done?
    • What risks is the company assuming through current management behavior?
  • Don’t accept problems brought to the CEO for remedy without an alternative of some kind from the individual raising the problem.
    • The CEO can’t do it all; that’s why there’s a management team.
  • Choose with care those issues delegated to a peer or subordinate for solution.
    • Another CEO told of an issue where he delegated a critical project to the wrong person and the job wasn’t done.
    • Confidence must be established for effective delegation.

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Can You Metric Company Culture? Two Suggestions

Situation: A company has done a number of things to build company morale. Participation is variable depending on the activity. The CEO wants to build a system to measure employee morale. What metrics do you use to measure changes in your culture over time?

Advice from the CEOs:

  • The Gallup Organization has focused on this issue perhaps more than any other organization in the world. They find that regularly conducting surveys allows you to measure and improve your culture over time. Their surveys focus on 12 questions that they have found most critical to employee morale within a company.
  1. Do I know what is expected of me at work?
  2. Do I have the materials and equipment I need to do my work right?
  3. At work, do I have the opportunity to do what I do best every day?
  4. In the last seven days, have I received recognition or praise for doing good work?
  5. Does my supervisor, or someone at work, seem to care about me as a person?
  6. Is there someone at work who is interested in and encourages my development?
  7. At work, do my opinions seem to count?
  8. Does the mission/purpose of my company inspire me make me feel that my job is important?
  9. Are my co-workers committed to doing quality work?
  10. Do I have a best friend or mentor at work?
  11. In the last six months, has anyone at work given me a review or talked to me about my performance/progress?
  12. This last year, have I had opportunities at work to learn and grow?
  • Notice that not one of these has to do with compensation or benefits. Rather they focus on employee perception of how they are managed, whether they have to do the tools to do their job, and feeling that others at work care about them.
  • Another measure to watch is employee retention – particularly of your best employees.

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